TV Daily Roundup 2/28 – Interview with Rikki Wise (@StoryTimeWithRikkii) – Reality Steve By showbizztoday - March 2, 2025 0 209 Facebook Twitter Pinterest WhatsApp Share Tweet Share Share Email You are listening to the Daily Roundup right here as a part of the Reality Steve podcast. I’m your host, Reality Steve. Thank you all for tuning in. Good Friday present for you. I even have an interview immediately. It is an audio interview with Rikki Wise. Story time with Rikki, who had a significant, main story that she broke within the Love is Blind world earlier this week on her Instagram story. Started out on her TikTook. And it obtained taken down by TikTook for violation, although she didn’t actually do something unsuitable. So she put it on an Instagram story. It was about Alex from this season of Love is Blind. And we discuss that very disturbing stuff that she was capable of finding. And we are going to get to all that momentarily. 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See if you happen to get 60 % off your first field, begin your canine’s new 12 months off. Right with Ollie. Okay. We are going to speak to Ricky sensible story time with Ricky on Instagram. And that is one thing that if you happen to’re a love is blind fan, clearly you’re going to be watching episodes 10, immediately, weddings are subsequent Friday. The third the. Episode quantity 13 subsequent Friday, which might be what March seventh after which the reunion present goes to air. I consider two days in a while the ninth, they taped the reunion present this previous weekend, final weekend, final Saturday. So attention-grabbing to see. What occurs immediately, Ricky and I, we don’t go over spoilers. We don’t point out any {couples} which will have gotten married this season, however we don’t even actually go over all of the {couples}. We simply discuss mainly Ben and Sarah who ended episode 9 with their concern and asking Ricky what she heard and when. And then all of the allegations, and I wouldn’t even name them allegations. Rikki has the receipts. You’re gonna actually must go and take a look at her Instagram story on Storytime with Rikki. It is a few very disturbing stuff. I’m gonna offer you a warning of the stuff that Alex has been accused of by ladies in his previous that Rikki has receipts of, that you will note. Not simply, oh, this lady instructed me. Or, Oh, I learn a textual content message. She bodily reveals you the textual content messages. She bodily reveals you footage and it’s disturbing stuff. And it’s downside. And one of many issues is, you realize, sadly Ricky was doing the very best she may to get this all collectively so she may have all of her geese in a row and current a really clear and concise timeline and receipts. On Instagram story to indicate this. Well, she did it earlier this week. The downside was they’d already taped the reunion present final Saturday. So the present couldn’t handle it. You’re not going to see it when the reunion present airs of, Hey, Alex, some very, very problematic conduct in your previous. What do it’s important to say for your self? No, it’s not going to be addressed on the present. And Ricky and I discuss the truth that, Hey. What do you suppose this man does now as a result of that is some critical critical shit that’s happening and that’s being dropped at the forefront proper now. But the present’s over. Obviously Alex isn’t with anyone from the present. He didn’t even make it out of the pods. But, does this man do a podcast? Does he do any type of written interview with any person? Does he take to his Instagram story and do a reside video? Does he do exactly one thing written on his Instagram story or written on his Instagram feed? I don’t know, my guess although, if I’m Alex and I’m giving this man any recommendation, dude, disappear, simply disappear, as a result of it’s not like any person simply determined to come back out and say one thing and it’s a, he stated, she stated, there are main receipts. Ricky’s obtained all of them. She put them on her Instagram story. There’s actually no method to fight this. And I feel he would simply make it worse for himself if he did attempt to fight it. So that’s simply my two cents. I do not know what this man’s going to do for what it’s price. That’s what we’re taking a look at. This podcast dropped at you by Pretty Litter. This time of 12 months, each cat is an indoor cat. There’s one factor that may actually stink up being caught inside. It’s the litter field. Don’t let the nasty scent destroy your winter wonderland. Switch to Pretty Litter like everyone else is doing. 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So I would like you to fill everyone in on whenever you obtained your first message or whenever you had been tipped off. To any tea relating to Alex this season, which is what the most important story and the most important tea that you just broke this week. Yeah. So I began listening to rumblings about among the male solid had been, you realize, circling round in among the Facebook. Dating teams. Primarily it was really Ben first that I heard about and as soon as Alex was on, they confirmed him on the finish of the season seven reunion. Like, you realize, they by no means present the season eight solid. So this was sort of the primary time they did that. So. I, that’s after I began listening to this man has been posted within the teams. Like he’s everywhere in the teams, you realize? And I attempted to get round October when season seven aired. Yeah. Like, and there’s like, there’s some, it’s best to verify the teams. There’s some posts about him. So I attempted to get within the teams. They didn’t let me in, however I did get in anyway. And they had been gone. Like they had been scrubbed. There was nothing. I couldn’t discover something on any, any of the blokes like Ben. Alex, Dave, like, apparently all of them had beforehand been posted in there. I couldn’t discover a single factor. And then I feel when the season began airing a few of these, you realize, a few of some folks had some screenshots that began circulating on Reddit and so they had been dated. In June. So, you realize, this man had been posted in, within the teams again in June, which might be earlier than any, earlier than the solid checklist was introduced earlier than he was on the season seven reunion earlier than something. So earlier than anybody knew who this man was, yeah. So you began listening to it then the Ben stuff was, we will briefly go over that. What I’ve seen is when he’d have intercourse with a girl and go away his YouTube card. Yes, sure, fairly a bizarre flex, however no matter. Yeah, there’s that. And then, I imply, Another factor with Ben that really made its means onto the present was round final 12 months a girl on TikTook like made a video crying saying, Oh, my God, why does Netflix maintain casting these, you realize, creepy males or these shitty males? And it really. She posted it whereas they had been nonetheless filming. So that’s why we seen in these previous couple of episodes that, you realize, they really picked that they really noticed the tick tock, obtained wind of it and, and addressed it on the present. And it was coming from a previous, a lady who had dated Ben. Yeah. And this, our, our discuss is airing on Friday. So folks we all know, I’m assuming to episode 10 immediately goes to start out with. Pick up the place it left off, which has been in Sarah’s dialog of Sarah confronting him and saying, look, you bought to inform me all the things as a result of even on the finish of episode 9, his story actually began altering within the second as a result of at first it was similar to, no thought who that’s. Yeah. And she’s like, however what about this? And he’s like, oh yeah, one time, 4 years in the past, went out along with her, however we by no means connected. And then it was similar to, however she’s saying all these things. Well, really the lady, the lady who posted the tech discuss really did submit a comply with up video episodes aired. And she really sort of admitted that she overexaggerated in her first couple of movies as a result of her, her movies, I don’t know if you happen to’ve seen them. They had been very, she posted like two or three. They’re very dramatic, leaving folks. To suppose what occurred, what had been attributable to this lady. I do know I believed the identical factor myself as a result of I recapped one in all her movies and he or she obtained actually upset with me. So I’m like, Oh my God, I used to be considering one thing occurred. And she really made a followup video saying that she did find yourself solely happening a date and a half with him. She stated the second date was so horrible that like her buddy needed to come. Rescue her from the bar after which he hit on her buddy and that he ghosted her. So she did, you realize, admit in her video that she sort of maximized it. She was like, I used to be, you realize, I used to be dramatic, not due to my expertise with him per se, however as a result of different ladies had shared their experiences with him and I used to be, my tears had been for them. So she sort of admits that. I feel that is the one time that Ben perhaps was telling the reality that. You know, it’s 4 years in the past. I ghosted her. I solely went out, went out along with her for just a few instances. We didn’t hook up. Like, I don’t actually know why she’s crying. Cause she sort of, in so many phrases, had the identical story as what he stated on display. So, and that’s what makes it so. I suppose difficult as a result of we’ve seen it. I imply, I take care of it in bachelor world. When solid is introduced, you simply get this info like, Oh my God. So, and so, particularly relating to the lads of the the bachelor franchise, Oh, so, and so such a participant, he’s solely out for clout. It was similar to, okay, however at this level, that’s not even price reporting anymore. It must be some critical, like virtually legal conduct as a result of any person, any person, an ex popping out saying. This man ghosted me and he’s a jerk or he sucks in mattress or no matter. It’s similar to, okay, you’re simply seemingly jealous that this man that you just used thus far, whether or not you want him now or not, whenever you in all probability don’t, he’s now going to be getting consideration from a bunch of ladies and also you mainly simply wish to rain on his parade. There’s actually It’s okay that you just had a man that you just as soon as went out with that’s, that perhaps was a jerk to you, but when he was only a jerk and he was a participant, it’s lots of folks which are jerks and gamers which are happening actuality TV. Yeah, and I feel it’s at all times like, I hate to love decrease somebody’s expertise, however that’s sort of like what she was alluding to in her movies, however she was being so imprecise about it that And her response, I believed like, Oh, perhaps one thing extra critical occurred. And like, I’m sorry. Like I didn’t, I didn’t know, however then it’s like for it to truly be precisely that, such as you really solely went out on two dates with him. You stated you didn’t even end the second date and you realize, it was all like, yeah, he, he treats ladies like objects and he’s, you realize, needs to be, he’s on the present for the unsuitable causes. And he doesn’t wish to get married. I feel lots of, I feel lots of people. Are on the present for the unsuitable causes and don’t wish to get married. And such as you stated, like, okay, greater than he was a douche bag to you. Like what else? But it looks like on this particular scenario, he, she positively Max, she admits that she overreacted and like, it was like, she wasn’t crying due to one thing Ben did to her per se. It was due to what she heard Ben did to different folks. So now was that conduct dangerous? I’m sorry, legal act to different ladies, you realize, just a few ladies have come ahead that I spoke with and all of them had been very they made it very clear that there was no bodily abuse. They simply, it was like that he’s, I imply, emotional or psychological, perhaps, however that he was a douche that he was a cheater, liar, manipulator, gaslighter, all these issues. So extra alongside that, that’s what I’ve heard. I haven’t heard any, like, formal claims of abuse. And I suppose that’s what makes it robust. And like, I’m not going to sit down right here and say the love is blind casting workforce does such an important job yearly. But whenever you’re casting the folks for this present, one thing like that, it’s not going to come back up in a police report. It’s not going to come back up in a background verify. So these ladies coming ahead saying, Oh, one other solid of fellows which are simply, you realize, horrible males or no matter. But it’s like, what’s the casting workforce on this explicit scenario? Just, simply talking about Ben right here and we’ll get to Alex in a second. What are they alleged to do on one thing like that? Call each single ex he’s ever been with and say, Is he a pleasant man? Is he a very good man? Did he ghost you? Was he a gaslighter? Was he emotionally manipulative? I don’t know. What do you do at that time? It’s virtually like all they’ll do is background checks and if this man had any type of restraining order out towards him or any type of legal exercise with a girl, growth, you shouldn’t be solid. But that’s not what we’re getting. We’re simply getting guys which are gamers. And whenever you’re casting a present that has 25 to 33 12 months outdated good trying folks. I’m guessing they’ll have one or two X’s and perhaps extra. That perhaps they weren’t the nicest to and so they ghosted and so they’re only a participant and it’s similar to, okay, effectively, that’s relationship in 2025, you realize, yeah, no, yeah, I agree. I imply, I feel I don’t suppose it could be an excessive amount of for casting to infiltrate these teams and see what’s being stated about their solid. And once more, if one thing. You know, so far as them hooking up with numerous women and mendacity, like, I don’t suppose that that’s one thing that ought to essentially maintain you from being solid as a result of, you realize, folks change not saying that been modified. I feel he’s nonetheless a douche, however you realize, however then once more, then you definitely would additionally discover out about among the extra critical accusations and allegations which are what persons are saying, like, what’s going round about Alex. So, yeah, and that’s, it’s an attention-grabbing level as a result of. When you take a look at it total, and the one factor that this present does that, or doesn’t try this the bachelor does do, and the bachelor began this, I can’t bear in mind what 12 months it began. But they mainly say, and so they launch it on their Facebook web page. If it’s a bachelor season or bachelorette season, they are saying, listed below are the potential, let’s say for a bachelor season, listed below are the potential ladies for the subsequent season of the bachelor. And it’s simply. First title, final preliminary age and metropolis. And that’s often launched about three days earlier than filming began. And they applied this as a result of they needed to see. If anyone got here ahead in these two to 3 days, as a result of these ladies at this level have already been flown to LA and so they’re sequestered earlier than they do the primary evening. And this has solely been going for about perhaps 5 years, perhaps final 10 seasons, they’ve finished this. They by no means did this earlier than. It was simply, we didn’t know who the solid was till. Filming had began, footage began getting out, after which it was simply, Oh, Hey, I do know this individual. So one thing you are able to do at that time. So then they only began saying, Hey, let’s, let’s do it early. Love is blind. Doesn’t try this. This filmed final February and March and. You know, the one purpose that lady launched a tick tock final February was as a result of I suppose she heard by way of the grapevine that yeah, actually, actually small city, I feel. And I feel folks had seen him filming round and with love is blind. It’s very, it’s very apparent as a result of they’ve the golden goblets. So you sort of, I suppose it obtained again to her that, you realize, they had been filming round city and it was apparent what present he was going to be on due to the golden cup. So that’s how she knew. And they only, however the public, I imply, until you’re dwelling in that metropolis or no matter you see filming otherwise you hear about filming, we, the general public, I didn’t know who the solid was till what, two weeks earlier than the primary episodes drop when love is blind comes out. And that’s when us 99 % of the general public that follows the present is, is listening to it for the primary time. Obviously you had identified some names and stuff, however yeah, it’s simply, it’s, it’s, it’s completely different as a result of they’re not letting you realize, Hey, we’re about to start out, you realize, for Minnesota final February. We didn’t hear final January. These are the those who we’re casting which are going into the pods. Let us know something that you realize, so we don’t allow them to into the pods, you realize, so we will solid any person else. We have alternates standing by however they don’t try this. So it’s simply, that is what they’re going to give you each season. And I’m positive one thing goes to occur subsequent season with Boston. I’m positive already persons are speaking about Boston’s solid. Right. For positive. When, oh, by the best way, actual fast, when did Boston movie? October of 2024. My dates are all tousled. I feel generally they movie, so there’s no telling after they’re filming, as a result of generally they do two seasons at a time. So they do try this. I heard that Boston is filming at present, proper? Like proper now. Oh, they’re filming now? Yeah. Okay. So they’re This is across the time they movie. February is after they’ll movie. Okay. So the Minnesota solid needed to wait a 12 months for his or her season to come back out. Boston’s in all probability going to have to attend six months, in all probability popping out in October. Yeah. Or it’s in all probability popping out subsequent February, to be sincere. Yeah. Oh. Yeah. Cause now we have Denver coming. Yeah. I feel Denver is what will premiere in October. That’s what I meant to ask you. When did Denver movie? I’m assuming final October. Yes. Yeah. Yeah. I’d assume. And then they’ve a, they’ve a 12 months to. Before their season airs, similar to Minnesota. Okay. So yeah, we obtained Minnesota now. Denver goes to be the second season that airs within the calendar 12 months of 2025. And then we’ll get Boston in 2026. Got it. Okay. So now let’s transfer on to the Alex stuff. Again, a lot stuff right here and I wish to commend you as a result of the vetting you probably did on this was so prime notch and so exact to the place you didn’t simply get just a few emails and a pair. Hey, I do know this man. He’s a jerk. It’s obtained some problematic conduct. And you’re similar to, okay, cool. Send me some textual content messages. Like you actually, actually dug deep and in your two Instagram tales that you just launched this week on Storytime with Ricky. I imply, it was simply fixed exhibiting and we’re seeing and studying textual content messages and all these things. The quantity of instances I needed to Hold my finger to my cellphone so I can learn all the things. That was nice. But I imply, that’s what we wish to see. And so as a result of it’s very straightforward to simply take what an ex says and run with it. I used to do it on a regular basis and it obtained me in bother generally, you realize, consider it or not, persons are simply jealous that somebody they used thus far is now. Like I stated, getting consideration. So they only wish to deliver them down and so they’ll simply trash them simply to trash them. But this was a bit completely different with Alex’s exes. How many ladies that Alex used thus far have contacted you in whole? I’ve spoken to many alternative ladies in several lanes of his life. So I’ve spoken to 2 exes. I’ve spoken to some mates that he confided sure issues in that he met in like a relationship side, however perhaps it didn’t transpire that means. And they ended up being mates. I talked to ladies who allegedly attended these events, so it was, it was a. It was like virtually each avenue of his of his life as a result of there have been so many nameless customers that got here ahead in these boards and on Reddit and like, they’re attempting to get their story out. And persons are simply discrediting them and saying, oh, oh, you simply need consideration. And I at all times cease and suppose, no, no, no, no, no. Like, there’s no means that 7 ladies. I’m speaking roommates, exes, you realize, people who find themselves on the events or individuals who have had a weird expertise with him are saying this stuff and there’s no fact to it. And I, I didn’t perceive why nobody was simply speaking to them. Like, okay, why doesn’t as a substitute of simply saying, Oh, it’s only a Reddit thread or, Oh, it’s only a Facebook submit. Like, why does it, why is no one speaking to them? So initially it was six. 6 completely different ladies, and since I posted the video on Instagram, 3 extra have come ahead. My video really obtained taken down off of TikTook for a pointers violation. So, it was up there first, and so they took it down as a result of TikTook’s very, very delicate. And, you realize, the photographs with the minors and the alcohol, like, that, that might, I suppose, be a pointers violation, so. But you coated their faces, proper? I did. But that’s nonetheless a suggestion. It’s nonetheless a suggestion violation. It’s like exhibiting harmful exercise with minor. So I’m going to aim to repost with out the photographs as a result of I do suppose it’s an vital story. And tick tock is the place I get most of my traction. And I do see some, you realize, articles quoting like in a now deleted tech discuss insinuating, you realize, that I took it down as a result of it’s not true or, however, or something like that. It’s like, no, it obtained taken down for pointers violation. So, and I do suppose it’s vital. So I’ll attempt to like refilm it. And be very delicate as a result of even with the subject at hand, it’s tick tocks, very delicate, and I don’t wish to get my account banned. That’s for positive. So with Alex, clearly 9 completely different ladies, six, that means you included in your story. And then you definitely stated, ever since you place out the story in your Instagram story, three extra have come ahead. We don’t must undergo all 9, however inform everyone what essentially the most critical allegation towards him is, or not even allegation. It’s. You have the receipts for it. So precisely essentially the most critical factor that Alex did and why you determined to deliver this to the forefront. Okay. So I feel initially what was going round within the teams was that Alex would host events in his twenties and he, you realize, would have strictly teenage women between the ages of 15 and 17 there, and he would supply paraphernalia and alcohol and, you realize, there have been some studies that he would. You know, allegedly reap the benefits of them after they had been in an intoxicated state. So I feel these had been the floor allegations. Right? So, with a view to, I talked to some ladies who attended these events. Like I stated, they had been capable of present footage of those events, proving that they did in truth occur. And I used to be capable of, they had been really capable of. Look at their photographs as a result of they’d photographs from the events and ping their location. Look on the location. And we had been really capable of finding the home that these events had been allegedly happening at. And we had been capable of hint that handle again to a identified earlier handle of Alex. So, after all, there’s no method to, you realize. Say what precisely was happening at these events, however we had been capable of confirm that these events had been in truth taking place. So, after which the ladies that got here ahead there, their criticism in the direction of him was what precisely was it simply, he was. Feeding or giving underage ladies alcohol. And such as you stated, take benefit. Did you communicate to any lady that he took benefit of who was given underage? So I’ll, sure, I’ll make that clear. None of the ladies that I spoke with particularly obtained taken benefit of by Alex to their information. And that’s their phrases particularly. Now, had been they in intoxicated States and didn’t need conscious what occurred whereas they had been in these States? Yes. Do they, did they see suspicious? Things taking place. Yes. But to them instantly. No. So even, even if you happen to take heed to my movies, I by no means say, you realize, they’re accusing him of this as a result of there isn’t any police report. There is, he’s by no means been criminally charged. There’s by no means been something formally filed towards him. I say, you realize, we will show that these events occur, however there isn’t any proof of. What went down at these events, apart from what these ladies declare to have seen. But there once more is not any proof of that. So I attempted to current what I had and simply let the you realize, the viewer resolve for themselves what they suppose occurred. And I feel the one other half to the story was I did communicate to an ex who, you realize, Is now capable of look again and see the entire purple flags are regarding behaviors inside her relationship. And I don’t suppose like, it’s like speaking to this lady, you realize, that it’s not similar to a jealous ex. Like, she is she is married. She has moved on in a brand new relationship, you realize, household. And it’s similar to, She’s nonetheless working by way of all the things that she went by way of in her relationship. And she’s extra so coming from a spot of concern of like, I, you realize, him being on this nationwide platform, I feel these ladies are genuinely involved of the kind of entry that he’s going to must younger ladies. And they only wish to sort of put a warning on the market. And if their story is the best way to try this, that’s what they’re hoping to do. So what’s the Is that the one which had the textual content message alternate in regards to the paper that he wrote? Explain to everyone what that was all about. Okay. So she instructed me lots of issues that in her relationship with Alex that he, you realize, would request that she dressed youthful that she appeared youthful, put on her hair a sure means, put on braces. He want to watch younger. P. O. R. N. collectively and would inform her porn. Okay, so they’d watch porn collectively and he would sort of inform her the best way to search sure websites to the place you would get individuals who look actually younger. He requested her to position play pretending that they had been in center faculty. So I did have a textual content thread of that of him like. Literally asking her to position play. So simply establishing a sample of like conduct type of communicate. And she stated that, you realize, she did, you realize, she was a T. A. And she would typically critique his work. And he requested and I attempted to entry the paper. I wasn’t capable of he did a paper on utilitarianism the place he was arguing that stealing a coworker’s meals and changing it earlier than they realize it’s gone is similar as sexually assaulting a girl in her sleep and he or she doesn’t know that she obtained sexually assaulted.