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This effing man…
We now know, fairly definitively it appears, that Mica Miller actually did die by suicide. But the extra we examine this case, the extra we get an image of a girl who was attempting to so exhausting to flee the psychological torment by the hands of 1 man — her husband.
Yes, John-Paul Miller, or J.P. as he’s recognized regionally, the pastor with the sketchy response to the stunning information of his spouse’s dying. He apparently has a rock strong alibi for her time of dying. But the proof he was a horrible husband — even after estrangement — retains piling up.
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NewsNation obtained maintain of an e-mail J.P. allegedly despatched to Mica only a few days earlier than her dying — apparently apologizing for placing revenge porn of her on the web! Yes, this can be a freakin’ church pastor we’re speaking about! Per the outlet, J.P. was writing to apologize to his spouse for posting a topless photograph of her on-line. He mentioned:
“I’m sorry for putting a picture of you on the internet. It was for less than one hour and immediately taken down.”
Notice how he apologizes however then instantly minimizes how unhealthy it was as a result of he took it down? That’s not all. He then jumps straight to explaining WHY he did it:
“I was hurt that you are telling everyone horrible intimate details of my past sin, and I just wanted to try and hurt you. Please forgive me. It was evil of me to do that.”
“Intimate details” of his “past sin”?? What’s that about? Well, this was reportedly lower than two weeks earlier than her dying. So we will level to what she had been posting on her Facebook, which was newly wiped of his presence. There she made movies talking out about escaping a “dangerous” state of affairs and particularly addressed different Christian girls struggling “abuse” by the hands of their husbands. That’s simply what we’ve got a document of. We can guess she was telling people she knew concerning the upsetting specifics.
And we now have a greater concept what these have been. Two days after that e-mail — simply 9 days earlier than her dying, per NewsNation — Mica wrote an affidavit to her divorce lawyer lastly unleashing all of it. She wrote:
“Since the day we became husband and wife, I have been abused in every way I can think of. Emotionally, sexually, spiritually, financially, and physically. He has harassed me physically and electronically with letters, phone calls, emails, and texts, hacking my emails, hacking my personal Facebook, and impersonating me. Using my stolen phone to send texts and emails out to church members pretending to be me, texting friends and family saying that I am sleeping with teenagers from our church, and showing up in person at places around town … To having installed 3 different tracking devices on my vehicle.”
JFC. How did this man of the fabric get away with this?? Oh… we simply answered our personal query, didn’t we?
After all, the story we’ve heard is that J.P. met Mica when she was only a 14-year-old churchgoer, and he had one other spouse — and 4 youngsters. He’s been accused of grooming Mica till she was sufficiently old to cheat with after which marry. She had apparently been babysitting for him. ICK! If all that’s true, it appears like he was utilizing his place to prey on girls all alongside. But that didn’t cease when he obtained married, per her submitting.
DailyMail.com obtained Mica’s authentic divorce submitting, which was truly made approach again in October of final yr, six months earlier than her dying. Unlike so many of those “irreconcilable differences” ones, Mica straight up mentioned she was leaving him “on the grounds of adultery.” The submitting reads:
“Plaintiff (Mica) is informed and believes that the defendant (John-Paul) has and is currently engaging in acts of adultery with women whose names are well known to the defendant.”
As in, girls she is aware of from church?? She mentioned she “left the marital home due to defendant’s philandering as well as defendant’s growing hostility towards plaintiff,” elaborating:
“Defendant has threatened to throw plaintiffs belongings into the yard, locked plaintiff out of her own home and has defamed and demeaned the plaintiff before a congregation of people.”
Gross! And no surprise he was upset! Given his place, this divorce might damage him!
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Like we mentioned, if all of the bodily proof didn’t level to suicide… we will see why people on-line have been and nonetheless are suspicious of the person. But it appears fairly clear he didn’t kill Mica. However…
Her household does maintain him liable for her dying. Her father Michael Francis mentioned in an interview on NewsNation over the weekend:
“I know she was pushed to the brink… My theory is broad right now. There are bruises on her hand and injuries. These things are not documented, and they don’t show up for no reason. We just want more answers. As soon as they got married, her behavior went downhill fast. She seemed to be more sad, more under control. I believe he compressed her. He just sucked the life right out of her and caused her to go downhill.”
So unhappy. And not a singular story on the subject of these supposed upstanding church guys, sadly. Mica’s sister Destinee Barrientos corroborated the grooming story, in addition to describing early abuser conduct:
“He convinced her to get away from our family during her teens. He told her he would find different households for her to live with in the church to get her away from our family. He isolated her.”
You can see extra from Mica’s household (beneath):
Just a horrible, horrible story. We don’t know if there’s any justice that may be discovered right here. Too many of those little behaviors on their very own aren’t even unlawful. But put all of them collectively, are they psychologically damaging sufficient to push somebody to take their very own life?
We simply hope somebody will decide this so-called pastor, ultimately. Even if he has to seek out his justice someplace a bit additional south than South Carolina…
If you or somebody you already know is considering suicide, assist is out there. Consider contacting the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline at 988, by calling, texting, or chatting, or go to 988lifeline.org.
If you or somebody you already know is experiencing home violence, assist is out there. Consider calling the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-7233, or textual content START to 88788, or go to https://www.thehotline.org/.
[Image via Solid Rock/YouTube/Mica Miller/Facebook.]