Raven Ross is able to share what occurred along with her former fiancé SK Alagbada’s dishonest scandal!
For those that haven’t been maintaining with their story, the exes fell in love within the pods throughout season 3 of Love Is Blind — effectively, at the very least considered one of them did! While SK and Raven made it to the marriage day, he broke her coronary heart by ending their relationship on the altar. The two later reconciled someday after the present ended and even bought re-engaged! But their relationship quickly crumbled once more when two ladies got here ahead on TikTook to accuse SK of dishonest on Raven with them. He vehemently denied the allegations and mentioned he employed an legal professional to struggle them.
While the pilates teacher has remained comparatively quiet concerning the state of affairs, aside from just a few feedback on social media and within the Netflix After the Altar particular, she lastly revealed all the things that occurred on The Viall Files podcast Thursday! So buckle up, Love Is Blind followers, as a result of there’s a lot to cowl!
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According to Raven, all of it started when filming for the primary a part of the sequence ended in the summertime of 2021, and SK determined to go on a visit to Europe after he left her on the altar. Despite the 34-year-old inviting her on the getaway since they have been on good phrases and in communication with one another day-after-day, Raven determined to not go. However, she later found that one of many ladies he allegedly cheated on her with (Hannah Beth) went on trip with him. When Nick Viall requested if SK “knew you were too busy to say yes” to the journey, she mentioned, “100 percent,” including:
“They extended their trip, stayed together in London. … We weren’t together. It was not cheating, but it was lying.”
So at that time, they weren’t collectively but. Nevertheless, Raven famous she wished SK advised her his ex-girlfriend could be there – as a substitute of her studying about it on TikTook a 12 months later.
Fast ahead to February 2022, the duo is making an attempt to work issues out, however they’re not official but. Raven went to go to SK in San Francisco – and that’s when she found one thing suspicious in his place. When the truth star opened a rest room cupboard, she discovered a mysterious towel with make-up and hair throughout it:
“I go to San Fransisco — I think that was my first time [going to visit him at school] — we’re serious, but we’re being realistic. We’re not, like, official. … We don’t move in together until, like, July. He had gone to school, I was trying to take a shower, I was looking for a towel. I open the cabinet under the sink and there’s all this stuff shoved in there and I see a towel and I pull the towel out. … There’s makeup all over the towel and hair all over the towel. I was like, ‘That’s weird.’ … But I knew in my head, we were not officially dating.”
We wouldn’t blame her if she was upset about presumably one other lady being there because it appeared like they have been seeking to get again collectively once more! When Raven requested him concerning the discover, she recalled SK hesitating and later telling her it was simply from a turmeric face masks. Seriously, dude??! Raven mentioned:
“I should’ve known [then] this is someone who will lie through his teeth to try to make you believe it based on who he knows you think you’re with. Of course, I didn’t believe it, but I wanted to believe it.”
As it’s possible you’ll recall, a girl who glided by @emmwho9 got here ahead to say SK had been in a relationship along with her after they met on a courting app in California. When the social media consumer posted the receipts on TikTook, Raven noticed some texts that have been from SK in March 2022, wherein he despatched Raven and the lady the identical messages about his journey to Austin:
“It was literally verbatim. The same selfie. The same words.”
Raven shared that SK owned as much as “a little” about what went down months later, and he insisted that they solely ever frolicked with one another as soon as. However, the health guru knew there was one thing off primarily based on how he acted when she confronted him about it:
“This is a thread throughout it. Anytime there would be a moment like this, there would always be hesitation. He didn’t answer the phone for a while … for an hour or two.”
By April, round her thirtieth birthday, Raven felt they have been “solid” and formally a pair once more. She took him to her hometown in New Orleans and stayed along with her mother:
“[I was] ready to do it right outside of Love Is Blind.”
But lower than a month later, Raven alleged that SK took the second lady along with her to a {couples} getaway to Mexico:
“They had all gone on a couples’ trip a week after him and I went on my birthday trip to New Orleans. And literally the next weekend, [he] went to Cabo with her [and] told me he was in school the whole time.”
OMG!!! That is tousled…
To make issues worse, she and SK additionally went on a {couples} journey to Mexico with Alexa Alfia and Brennon Lemiuex in addition to Colleen Reed and Matt Bolton in June 2022. And you’ll by no means guess what he mentioned to Raven on the time. She claimed:
“He told me, ‘I’ve never been to Mexico before.’”
WTF?!!
Two months later, Raven advised Nick that they bought engaged. And simply if you couldn’t assume issues would worsen… At the time of their engagement, she alleged SK was planning a trip to Miami with the second lady. Wow. Despite proposing to Raven in entrance of the cameras, SK allegedly begged producers to take away their engagement from the present. Raven mentioned:
“Apparently after we got engaged, he backtracked, went back to producers and started, like, pleading with them to take it out. [Producers said], ‘We thought you knew, and we thought you guys were breaking up.’ … We were filming the reunion and he went off the grid, remember? No one could find him, no one could get a hold of him, everyone was freaking out. Come to find out, he locked himself in a van with one of the producers and was like, ‘You gotta take the engagement out. You gotta take the engagement out.’”
Intense!!
Cut to November 2022 when the explosive dishonest allegations got here out. Raven mentioned she found a “happy birthday” message SK despatched to the second lady days earlier than Love Is Blind premiered in October. Then, the lady’s video got here out:
“By the time the second girl came out on TikTok, he was already back home. So we were together at this point, physically at our apartment in Dallas. And [we] were just sitting in our kitchen and both of our phones start going crazy.”
Noting that SK turned silent on the time, she continued:
“Because he does that thing where he’s got to ghost for a little bit and get the lies together.”
Raven shared that the second lady’s accusations have been “far more damaging” since they have been collectively earlier than. But when she dropped one other clip with texts and photographs from more moderen interactions that had been the ultimate nail within the coffin for her. Raven recalled:
“My heart just sank. That point was the first time when I started using the words, ‘We’re about to be done. You’re pushing way past my limit, because this is a boldfaced lie and you knew we were together at that point, you can’t argue it.’”
She says SK then advised her the second lady was extorting him and refused to take away her TikTook movies except he gave her $300,000. He additionally requested Raven if she would deceive followers concerning the dishonest scandal. Looking again, Raven advised Nick “there was so much manipulation and gaslighting,” including:
“He really was just worried about saving his career and his face. And he wanted to get lawyers involved to, like, make these claims go away so it wouldn’t look bad for him. I was there at home listening to him on the phone with lawyers all day every day. He was like, ‘This is for my career.’ That’s literally what he said all the time.”
When requested if there have been any “red flags” she ignored, Raven expressed that there was quite a bit she missed, saying:
“There was always this trend — and it’s hard because this is a part that I’m still processing, it’s probably the ego inside of me — of him being really hard on the way that I looked. It got to the point, in August actually, that I was so upset. We had basically lived together the entire summer, we had our apartment and anything I would wear, it was just always something.”
In truth, SK allegedly advised her that he was by no means “attracted” to her:
“And then sending the picture [of another woman on Instagram] — it was always these girls that looked nothing like me. … I was so sad, and I even started to say to him, ‘You don’t really like me, you don’t like the way that I look.’ … And then when all of these girls came out and more of the critics were like, ‘Raven, he doesn’t even like girls that look like you. He never liked you to begin with.’ I’m like, ‘Little do y’all know that was something I was bringing up.’ … In the end, he basically admitted it [and] said, ‘You’re not my type. I’m not attracted to you.’”
WHAT?!!!
As for whether or not or not they’ve had contact since their messy breakup? Raven revealed they spoke two weeks in the past – and he had the audacity to ask if she’d need to rekindle their romance once more after all the things!
“He reached out to me. … He did say, ‘I was so worried about myself and protecting myself that I didn’t really care about how you were feeling.’ He acknowledged that for the first time, which was nice to hear but doesn’t really change anything. He apologized, and of course, he was like, ‘I’d love to work on things.’”
The nerve…
However, SK gained’t be getting his want as a result of it seems to be like Raven has moved on from him! Hopefully this man doesn’t put her by means of the identical s**t she went by means of with SK. She undoubtedly deserves higher now!
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