Erica Mena is previous, believing she and Safaree Samuels will ever be. That a lot is “obvious,” the Love & Hip Hop star stated on the Atlanta reunion present, which aired on Monday. But she additionally shared how little she believes Safaree cared for her throughout being pregnant.
“I was in the hospital bed with this man’s son. That man didn’t care if I made it through that pregnancy, that man didn’t care if I made it through that labor,” Mena stated.
A choose signed off on their divorce in September after Erica filed in May 2021. Safaree pays $4,305 in baby help. Safaree and Erica share joint, authorized custody of their daughter Safire and son Legend. Getting again to single standing has been rocky for the ex-couple with on-line exchanges and accusations.
As Erica shared her expertise, seemingly holding again tears, she defined doing motherhood alone for a second time.
“Like I had to drag myself out of that dark place. With my first son, because I had to hustle so much, I sacrificed so much time away from my firstborn that I’m still trying to make it up to this day,” Erica stated. “And this is stuff that I’ve confessed and been vulnerable with to him about that’s why it’s weird that he knows the traumatic experience of being a single mother once, and then he turns around and makes me a single mother twice.”
Before Erica defined her ache, the host did ask Safaree if he was in any ache seeing the clips of their marriage dissolving and listening to Erica converse.
“You know I always try to purposely numb myself from everything so that I don’t feel pain. You know, I tell myself I don’t care, so that I can really believe it, but there’s pain,” Safaree stated.
Erica Says Their Children Is Her Focus Now
Mena says she’s past anticipating accountability from Safaree. In her phrases, he doesn’t “owe [her] nothing” however owes their kids, and that’s all she says she cares about.
Nothing is strictly what Safaree was giving at first till a number of castmates stepped in. The reunion host and castmate Lil Scrappy urged him to “come on,” however Safaree appeared reluctant. Another castmate Shekinah Anderson chimed in, saying, “grow up,” to which Safaree responded, “shut the f**k up.” Anderson shot again, “you can cuss me out, I’m cool with it.”
Again, Scrappy urged him to “speak bro” as a result of there’s “somebody out there like [him.]” Safaree responded, “I don’t even know how to start.” Shekinah urged him once more, then Kirk Frost additionally inspired him to share his expertise.
Safaree Apologizes For Leaving After Their Son’s Birth
The father of two responded:
“Who wants to get married, have kids, and then end up here? I wouldn’t have thought two years later, this is where we would’ve been. We were just at a place of who could hurt who the most, and we were there for a long time. It sucks. Definitely sorry for the time our son was born, and I left a week later.”
Erica interrupted, saying it was “days,” not weeks after Legend’s start, that Safaree left. As Erica continued to interrupt, each the host and castmates, like Bambi, tried to clarify that he may not really feel secure sufficient to talk. Safaree’s last phrase was that he hopes their relationship will get higher.